Whitney has three Grandpas, and she couldn't be more lucky. Grandpa Faust beams with pride when he picks her up, and Papa (Roy) captivates her with his baritone voice and fun songs.
Grandpa Randy, however, is her guardian angel. Yesterday marked 22 years since my dad passed away, and I think it's the first May 29th since 1990 that I haven't shed a tear. And I know exactly why... this precious baby has her guardian angel in my dad. She has brought more joy to my life than I could ever have imagined, and while I'm saddened my dad isn't here to witness it, I am comforted by the legacy he left. Whitney will always know about her Grandpa Randy.
At an Alpha Gam function last week I saw a recent graduate from Chapman who works for Disney, and she mentioned, "I saw your dad's Legend plaque the other day." Her name is Kelly, and she's one of the most outstanding young women I've ever come across. She was a Disneyland tour guide for years, and now works in archives at the studios. I told her I'd never seen my dad's plaque - it's from being named a Disney Legend in 2005. She got home that night and sent me a photo of it:
I'm reminded of the numerous memories I have of my dad - from teaching me to ride a bike, to awesome slideshows for every sports team my brother and I played on; from watching Disney movies on reels at my birthday parties, to his Paul Newman smile that could brighten anyone's day - and while the sadness I feel will never go away, it's somehow lessened when I see Whitney with her daddy. I can't wait for them to make these kinds of memories together.
And so, while May 29-June 29 is a month that is always hard for me (May 29 - anniversary of dad's death; June is Father's Day; June 29 - dad's birthday), it's also such an exciting time as Wes gets ready to celebrate his first Father's Day - the first of many to come.
(Sidenote: as I Googled to find the link to my dad's Legend profile, this YouTube video popped up... and now I sit here in tears as it's only the second time I've seen him on video/heard his voice in 22 years. How amazing to have this video... and it just reminds me of the feeling I get every time I step foot in Disneyland, knowing my dad walked those same steps thousands of times as he helped create memories for everyone to enjoy.)













